I agree with you and difficult to get out of the pattern of doing it all emotionally and physically. It feels like I'm being lazy if I ask for something instead of just doing it myself. So hard to watch adult children prepare for the day which is totally different of how I would prepare. UGH!
Yes, it is very hard. I heard comedian Jimmy Carr say it's really about thinking of the future them. He said, "be kind to their potential" rather than to their fixing all their present needs. Watch this - https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1Ct1j87odr/?mibextid=wwXIfr
I agree with you and difficult to get out of the pattern of doing it all emotionally and physically. It feels like I'm being lazy if I ask for something instead of just doing it myself. So hard to watch adult children prepare for the day which is totally different of how I would prepare. UGH!
Yes, it is very hard. I heard comedian Jimmy Carr say it's really about thinking of the future them. He said, "be kind to their potential" rather than to their fixing all their present needs. Watch this - https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1Ct1j87odr/?mibextid=wwXIfr