I feel like lately I have been getting on everyone's bad side. Like when I try to be friendly and encourage people they seem to wanna push me away. I don't know what to do or what it is that gets me on people's bad side. What should I do?
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I know how you feel, one sunday 3 of my "friends" basically called me annoying to my face and just because when i text, i text quick, and long messages, i let one of the people know, and she said she was sorry, and the other 2, i havem't let them know, but i have forgiven them. But my Best Friend, Shane, (the one in my profile pic.) Said something that meant a lot the other day, when we were texting. He said:
Shane:I really enjoy talking to you.
Me:Haha i can turn into the annoying and pesky 10 yr old i have been know to be, THEN would you still say that? ( i was kinda testing him to see what he would say, and he passed the test:)
Shane: Yes, because your still YOU.
I guess my point is, just be YOU, i have come across as annoying and pesky, and had people ignore, or push me away, but that was because i wasnt being ME, i was trying to get people to like me, and trying to be like them, but since it wasnt the REAL me, i wasnt natrual. I am hoping and praying that your problem dissapears, and peopel accept you more, when ever i try to tbe friendly, or encourange someone when they are hurting, soemtimes (depending on the person) they might oush me away, becasue they want to talk to someone else, who they are closer to, or something, i just try not to take it personally, and forgive them if it hurts.
thanks everyone :) I just want you all to know that I'm trying to not to be too pushy. I'm not like that kinda person who obsesses over being like best friends with someone and being "too friendly"... but its just really difficult because the people who I am trying to be nice and encouraging to are actually really good friends with some of my best friends
Um...I would advice you to "back off" a little bit from those people, sometimes, they need a little space and don't know how to express it so they kinda "push away" like you said. Just let them know that you're here for them and let them come to you ! : )
Be patient and pray to God everything will turn out the right way. Don't forget, you're God's princess, a very valuable girl! ; )
well, some people can come across as needy or desperate when they are constantly trying to be a part of everything. I learned this from experience. I was terrified of being left out of any conversation because I was afraid that someone would become more popular than me if I wasn't involved with everything. Pretty soon, all my compliments were actually just a bunch of lies that I just made up so that people would like me. As a result, no one really liked me. I actually blamed it on my weight and almost developed an eating disorder. A good friend stopped me and helped me find my way back to God.
Just make sure that you're not coming across as clingy and make sure your compliments are genuine. : D
me n my older sis r kinda ike that some, i am not saying u r like this, but i know 1/2 the time when she is mean as she can b 2 me, n then trys to b nice i dont wanna trust or talk 2 her, and i know sometimes it makes me AND her feel bad... i am not sure y people would do that to u sinec u probably rnt like my sister(or at least u dont seem to b) but since i dont know u in real life i cant say
on this site or face to face?
Try not to worry about it. God has a plan for you so whatever happens to you even if its just tying to be friendly and no one will accept it. Trust that God will get you through. Who knows, people might actually stop pushing you away. If it's because of who you are, a follower of Christ. Stand tall because whatever people might think about you, you need to keep following Jesus because he's your friend now and he always will be.
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