Is this even right?..

About a month and a half ago I went through a ROUGH breakup! :( It stunk. The last time we saw each other, I asked, "So this is it?" and he said I'm sorry!.. Although he implied that it was the end, I knew it wasn't. I know that is not it. At least I don't think it is. It is so frustrating because I can't figure out whether it is God telling me it's not the end or just me wishing. I want to know so badly. I want to know so that if it is him, then I can just sit back and wait & if it is not him, so that I can move on, and not sit here waiting on him for the rest of my life. I know you're probably going to tell me that I shouldn't be worried, but I have been trying not to worry ever since the day we broke up. I cannot help but worry! At night I ask God to send me a dream. Not just any ordinary dream, but a dream that shows who I am meant to be with. I don't know whether this is right or not, but I do it anyway.. I just want to know so very badly. What do you think??

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Comment by Kathleen Adams on September 27, 2012 at 10:27pm: While you are concentrating on the two answers, 'It is him' or 'it is not him', you may be overlooking the answer God is trying to tell you by what is happening. I mean, are you even meant to be dating or in a romantic relationship?

Have faith that God will lead you where you are meant to be at the appropriate time and until then be joyful of the blessings you are only given as a single person. Behind all that you do serve God in the best way you can. Serve him through staying pure and not tempting yourself by being in a relationship as well as dedicating more time an energy to living in a godly way.

It may seem like finding your perfect man will be impossible without seemingly active participation but believe me that God will guide you and even without your knowing it things will fall into place more perfectly then any human's clumsy hands could place them.

The disciples were astonished. "Then who in the world can be saved?" they asked.

Jesus looked at them intently and said,

"Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible."

Your sister in Christ,

Kathleen

Comment by Hannah Marie DeForrest on September 25, 2012 at 6:22am: That is so okay, but sometimes he may show you in a different way when its the best way for you. Its okay to want to know, you just have to wait for God's answers!