Comparing youself

Hey Guys

I have a huge problem of comparing myself to my friends and family. I have 3 AMAZING sisters that are all AMAZING people. I love them all to pieces but sometimes it's just not possible not to compare myself to them. WE have all been christian since we were born but sometimes I feel like they are all "better Christians" then I am. They don't listen to any offensive music, they all read their bibles almost everyday. And I mean I know God doesn't measure how much we love him by these things but sometimes i just feel.......not worthy. I know I shouldn't, but living with such amazing people makes it VERY hard sometimes.

What should i do to stop comparing myself to other people? And am I alone in this?

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Comment by Nori Martin on April 25, 2012 at 8:24am: Well..I compare myself to these to specific girls...Sam and Cheryl... neither of them are Christan But I compare myself to them EVERY WHICH WAY!

Comment by Jennifer Joy Wilson on April 24, 2012 at 9:27pm: I compare myself to my sisters alot 2..they all have amazing families and r really pretty and awesome and i find it hard nor to wish i was them.Not only that i see really pretty girls and I"m like oh i wish i was like them :(..its hard but in the end were all diff..someone may be prettier than u but God made u in his own hand..sometimes i wonder y he made me like i am and i guess he knows what hes doing but i still find it hard to understand y he did that.I don't read my bible everyday and sometimes listen to offensive music, not proud of it but i do.Somtimes i feel ok about the way i am but other times i feel hopeless...i hope this changes.But everyone is pretty in their own way. don't worry about that ;).

Comment by Evangeline Colarossi on April 24, 2012 at 7:34am: i am the same, except i dont compare myself to my older sister, she isnt at all like me, and instead i look at girls at church and in town, anywhere i can try to make myself feel better

Comment by Jemimah Joy Beattie on April 23, 2012 at 4:34pm: Thx guys. I find it more hard at home then at school though. My sisters r just all such amazing people that I find it SO hard not to wish I was them.

I really appreciate though, that i am not the only one feeling this way.

Thx Guys :)

<3

Comment by Raquel Dumé on April 14, 2012 at 10:17am: No, you are not alone, I compare myself almost all the time, but you have to realize, you are you and you have a different way of doing things than others do, so there really isn't a way to stop comparing yourself, but you can pray whenever you feel the need to compare yourself, it will make you feel better :)