Boys are such a big deal in a girl's life, especially our age. Our world tells us to date and to hook up with anyone you feel attracted to. They treat it just like eating...nothing special. Nothing important. No big deal.
The world says date who you want. Be yourself.
But when we accepted Christ into our hearts, or when you will, we died to self and surrendered everything to him. And that means who we date.
It's so hard to like a boy and know it's not good for you or in the Lord's plan...I've been there. Especially if it's a nonchristian boy, please just save yourself the trouble and don't get into his life.
The Lord isn't against dating, but he wants us to wait for that one guy who is going to be the spiritual leader of the relationship. The guy who will treat you like the princess that you are, God's princess...the guy who will help you when you don't want to go on, the one who will honor and respect and love you with everything he has, following the Lord's will. A Christian relationship isn't even about the physical stuff. It's about growing together, helping each other in the other's faith and strengthening them. He may not even want you to get married, but whether he does or not, the relationship will be meaningful. If you do depart, you won't regret anything because you know that it was in the Lord's plan and you learned from it. A lot. So don't take relationships lightly...They're a big deal! And we know that waiting on the Lord is ALWAYS best for us, even when we're too stubborn to realize it.