HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm sure every girl on here has had a guy like her at one point in time. Well, I like many others have a guy likeing me. the problem? He is 18, drinks, smokes, smokes weed, and uses other drugs. He is very sweet but one, I don't want to be known as hanging out with a petifile, two. I feel like he would want me to start using drugs!:,( Plus, my mom doesn't like his family. I must admit I do like him very much and I feel like God would do a miracle through me, but how can I do that if I'm not allowed to see him?

He has asked me out just recentally, and I don't know what to tell him!!!!!!

Please help, thanx.

luv ya,

katie*

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Comment by Madeleine Anne Green on June 17, 2012 at 8:01am: God can only use you to make miracles happen if you are kept holy and pure. endangering who you are and what you believe by going out with him will taint that. i know the temptation is bad to date him, but these things never work out and your relationship with God is far more important than any boy.
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Comment by Raquel Dumé on June 17, 2012 at 7:27am: Well, first off, you should never do missionary dating, trust me, because if you like him so much, you might fall into temptation and do what he does, and it's not worth the risk. Second, you should obey your parents by not seeing him. What if you write him letters? Do it the old fashion way. Ask your parents of that is okay, maybe you can even let your parents read your letters before you give it to him. I know, an invasion of privacy, but you only have to do that if you think it's necessary. And your reply to him should be that your parents won't let you see him, and only that, don't say that you want to go out with him or add anything extra because that will make him try to persuade you to disobey your parents. Just say what you have to say and walk away. I hope I have helped a little!

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Comment by Alysha Argot on June 16, 2012 at 2:22pm: I would tell him no. But, if you think he is going to be drunk or act violent, do it when people are around. Missionary dating is NEVER a good idea, I don't care how strong your faith is. Also, your parents told you not to, and you have to obey your parents. If you feel like God wants you to try to help him, you can talk to him about Jesus as a friend, if your parents are okay with that.

Comment by Kanisha Davis on June 15, 2012 at 9:53pm: Dont do it. Your parents said no,and the Bible strictly says to obey and honor your parents. Second,if he is doing all these bad things and is eighteen thats a major no-no. He is not devoted to Christ like you from what I read and you cant force him to be. He will have to become on his own,and since he isnt now he probably wont be for a while. And also he is eighteen! Your way too young and he could go to jail for something like that if Im correct. Either way he is way to old and will be expecting more than what you should be giving. So mainly what Im saying is NO. Dont date him because it will only bring trouble.

Comment by Mica D on June 15, 2012 at 9:32pm: if your praents said no then dont do it! i had a boy that like me and did the same stuff and I thought i could change him! but i didnt!! I would say start talkin to him about bout Christ, and if he wants to change then maybe you could date him, but not untell. I am just tellin you this cuz I went through the SOME THING!!!!!

Comment by Tria Sabanty on June 15, 2012 at 8:57pm: This is a difficult situation. You see, before you can hang out with him, you NEED to make sure that your faith is strong enough to deny him if he asks you to smoke or do.drugs or drink or any other undesirable acts. You might think that its a great idea, because you might change him, but he might change you. And if your parents said no, i wouldnt go out with him. Just say that now isnt a good time for you to have a boyfriend or something. And how old are you? Cuz if your like 14 and this weird dude was stalking u...... lol. Anyway, it looks like right now you need guidance from the holy spirit, so i would go to him in prayer. I know ill be praying for you tonight. :).